Alive And Welded
What is an appropriate amount of togetherness time for a couple? My 9-year-old son spends half the week with me, plus every other weekend. My girlfriend of a year wasn't happy with only the other half of my time, so she started joining me and my son. She and I are now together 5 1/2 days a week (3 1/2 of which are also with my son). I'm never alone; I have no time to go grocery shopping, etc.; and no one's happy. My son prefers being alone with me; she enjoys him but feels she's sacrificing our time together. On Saturday, I had an important business meeting at 10 a.m. and a 2 p.m. coffee with a visiting guy friend. I had paperwork to do in between, meaning I'd be away from her from 9 to 5. She was really upset, acting almost betrayed, and wanted me to reschedule everything for my Saturday with my son. I said no. She then said she'd come for coffee before my meeting, lunch afterward, and join me and my friend. I'm normally nonconfrontational, but I again said no. She complained all weekend. Now I'm afraid to even schedule a haircut on Saturday, the only time I can go.
--Overwhelmed
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